what life is ? have you ever ponder? Post a Reply | Views: 834 | Started By: blake | Replies: 7 You know since I broke up with my gf few days ago. I began wondering what life is all about? Have you ever had those loneliness in your heart when your most beloved cheated on you and stuff like that. Walking around the mall, going home, work, college ...etc but all on your own.And things began to drift through my mind... and the main question that pops into my head is why do we live a life? life may be fun when you had your sweetheart by your side but without him/her.... its pure loneliness.i've done a lot for my gf and i gave her more than a 100%. But why? why do people always cheat on their other half. life is just unfair and brutal.One thing that i finally understand is that living a life is even tortorious than being in hell. Life is just a game... a mere game plotted by the heavenly gods. And we are just creatures unknowingly what will happen if we took the false step....Pathetic isn't it? For 2 years i thought i was happy and yet... in the process i lost everything... EVERYTHING when she said she wanted a break up in front of his 'bf'.And now sitting here in front of my com.... i just can't help questioning my life. My tears run dry, and my heart beats for no one now.i wanted to kill myself but i just dont have the courage to. life is just a dreaded hell.......Don't you think?

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Pages:     1   2    Next     I've been wondering too, but mostly if there is something after life, like a reward for all the crap we endure during our life. If there's nothing after, I don't really think there's a point. You make friends, you have family, you fall in love, just to find all these people leave this place one after one. What's the point of caring for people if you KNOW you're going to lose them? I don't know, sometimes I think that way when I'm depressed, but after that I look at my boyfriend for one second and I know it's worth it.Don't give up. We all have bad relationships before we meet the right person. You just have to earn good things by going through pain first, that's my belief. Responded: Moony   .... but the thing is that i know that she aint the one for me. we broke up for 11 times but each time history repeats itself. the same thing happens again and again. why must she do this to me?i want a new life, a new life where people cherish and appreciates me more. i am stuck at my place and i cant go anywhere.im lonely too lonely. i sacrificed all my friends for her but i get nothing in return....life sux for me Responded: blake   Hi Blake, Guess what... I won't say that you get over it, but you do get past it. Take it from someone who knows. The pain is still fresh now because it only happened a few days ago. And it's going to hurt a lot longer than a few days more, but I promise you things will get better.Life is about learning. The longer we live the more we experience, the more we learn about ourselves and other people.I think of life as more of a building project than a game. We each have this big project in front of us, and these tools laid out beside us. Instead of hammers,nails,screwdrivers, wrenches etc. we have tools like love, heartache, anger, happiness, grief, forgiveness etc...Sometimes we don't have a clue what to do with them but we'll have to use EVERY tool to complete our projects. Do you understand?By the way, it doesn't take courage to kill yourself, it takes courage to go on living in spite of everything. Love can come again and so can laughter,happiness and good times but you won't know that if you're not around to see it.Okay? Good luck to you. Hold on and keep your head up. Responded: Stormy   Here is my suggestion: go to Barnes and Noble and read self-improvement books about life. I have a great one for you!"The Road Less Traveled" by Scott M. PeckThis book talks about life in general and the whys and hows, etc. It's a very good book. I recommend for everyone.And here's a bonus: you can go to Barnes and Noble and read these books without even paying (just take a post-it note with you and write down the page number you end at so that way the next time you go back to B&N, you can start from that page). It's free reading!At least try out the book or other books. I did, I was willing to learn and I got a lot of good perspective on life and love. I'm not depressed anymore. I hope I've helped. Have a great day! Sincerely,Pisces Responded: Pisces   thanks people....I guess there are still people who cares for me... after reading all your posts i realize i was a bit of childish for thinking as such.Thanks and i really appreciate all your help.... Responded: blake   Pages:     1   2    Next