he says he wants it...but is scared. Post a Reply | Views: 273 | Started By: Maureen | Replies: 1 so we have been on and off for about a year and a half now..and usually its been great. but in the beginningi never thought he actually loved me...so i did cheat on him...since then he hasnt been able to trust me...he ALWAYS brings it up and its has been soo long. i mean i can see i hurt him real bad, i know i did and i regret it everday. but i try so hard to show him i love him.  because i do. hes like no other guys ive been around..with him im just ALWAYS happy. when i thought i lost him those couple months wer eporlly the worst. so he finally asked me back out...well about 3 months before he did i found a new guy...not someone to take him spot but just someone to hang out with...me and him are so alike! we are for sure bestfriends. i tell him everything....but still ians all i think about. i cant let go of him and when he asked me out it was amazing. we dated for ONLY 3 weeks...after that he broke up with me because he THINKS something is going on with me and my bestfriend.  i mean me and my friend we do hold hands and hug alot..but thats only because i love being around him..but whenever i am with him my minds ALWAYS on ian. and now he said hes done...he said hes scared i will cheat on him. . should i move on like he is? or try more... cause i have tried everything and said everything to express the way i feel..but i dontk now what else i could say or do. i need help.

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I dont think he ever change his mind about your cheating. Anyway, its up to you to decide what to do.. sacrifice yourself or move on Responded: nona