husband denies sex Post a Reply | Views: 585 | Started By: kimberlysmart | Replies: 3 My problem is my husband will not have sex with me. He is always on the internet with porno. Please help.

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There is a thing called tough love. If you have done everything to make it work and he still denies you then you should leave. He is cheating on you. When he finds other women more attractive, even on the net or photos, and turns from you, he is committing adultery. Responded: Guest   ok, the first thing you should do is get rid of the internet, follow by any thing that can be a love gel (you know what i mean) after that turn him on, in don't give him any, play with you self in fount of him and still don't give any. by then he should be back up in really needing it.(if he not then he mite be cheating) do this 4 like 3-5 day, then when he about to get some from you, you make such he know what he put you though and put you foot down about it (so later on you want have to go though so much) and then everything is everything. like the person above me said it call tough love,(pluse alittle pay back ) Responded: J.wolf   Trust I'm going through the same with my husband but not only does he not like to have sex he isn't into all that por* stuff as well. Just cause he's looking at por* and not you doesn't neccesarily mean that he's cheating on you. I know for a fact that when you both first started dating that things were great then once you two bit the bullet all things have changed... the romance, making out, playing with each other(sexually). Do you have any children? if not do you plan to have any? What I think the reason is if you don't and don't plan to have anytime soon maybe he doesn't want to make that big step unless you guys use something to prevent it. If you do maybe he's just trying to be careful of what the children may walk in on. But on the other hand you did mention that he watches porn. Have you tried to watch it w/ him? if yes..have you suggested that may be you two should try do some roleplaying or the different positions. I personally still need to work on mine , but I think that my husband is not ready for that big step w/ having children, I refuse to use protection i'm not saying that's the reason why my husband won't have sex with me. Honestly I don't know the reason...the thing is also is that my husband can have the biggest hard on or even what they call "blue balls" and it still would not bother him. Sorry if i'm getting to personal..it's just I never found or spoke to someone with the same problem. Is your husband one of those guys who likes for you to give b/j and not wanting to return the favor? if yes then I know how you feel. I know what your going through emotionally, and sexually, and it feels like you've tried everything and still won't budge unless it's convienant for him. even though you don't want to give in to that you can't help it b/c you don't know when the next convienant time it would be. WELL I hope I was some kind of help at least now you know that your not the only one.. Responded: sewuniq