My ex boyfriend is confusing me Post a Reply | Views: 403 | Started By: Mia | Replies: 2 Me and my ex have dated off and on for the past 5 years.  The last time he dated someone else.  Now they are done and he is back in the picture.  But he says he is confused and needs time.  It hurts really bad, I just wish hed say yes and be with me!  I asked him why do we run back to each other and he said maybe its cause we are used to each other and cant move on.  I said no, all my firends told me that before and I love you you are the one for me.  How can I make him see this? I am about to lose the 1 - and I dont know how to make him lvoe me and stay. I dont know what to do.  I am willing to try anything and do anything to make it work. But I dont know where to start? He says he loves me but he just doesnt know? WHAT THE!?!?!??!  HELP im going crazy.  I htought I was fine when we were broke up  it hurt a lot at first then i got over it and now hes back and i keep thinking i just need to make it right.  He still wants to have sex but be friends cause he said he dont think he will make me happy> what does that mean> gosh

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Base on what you have written. This relationship with you and your on and off again Boyfriend is just going to cause you a lot of pain and heart ace now and in the future. This guy don't want to settle down and wants to play the field. How pathetic can he be, to want to have sex with you and want to remain friends. I can't tell you what to do as you are the one that know what for you to do. With Aids out there you need to do some thing positive for your  self and not him Listen to your Gut feelings and let your conscience be your guide as to what action that will be in your best interest. Responded: Guest   i am in the same situation but we havent been with any one else. we are together for two weeks then off for two weeks . and i am here asking what to do as well. my situation is under "crazy for loving him" Responded: Guest