Having some big issues in the relationship!! Post a Reply | Views: 536 | Started By: Guest | Replies: 1 Well I really need some advice, my b/f and I have been dating for about 8 mons. nkow and in the begining he smoked weed and drank alot. But when we started dating I told him that he would have to try and stop smoking and not drink as often. For a while he did but yesterday he tells me that he started smoking weed again in July, after about 5 mons. of not doing it. Which really broke my heart, because I trusted him to still hang out with his friends, but not smoke and he ended up doing it any way, so If any one has any advice as to how get him to understand that he can't do this any more and that if he wants to be with me he can't, I mean I've tried to talk to him about it but he says that he can't help because he still want s to do it and the only reason he didn't for so long was because of me. Please help an tell me something to do , I really want to be with him because I know he can change and be a good person.         thanks so much,  grettel

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Ok, if he stop that long because  of you and then start again, then you going to have to be hard on him make him choose even the weed gose or you do. he mite call you on it show if he dose choose the weed thinking you want do it, leave and tell him that when he want to quite then and only then should he contact you. now it mite take a week or two b4 it really hit him you not play around and he'll try to reason with you just don't  give in. if he call ask him if if quite if he dosen't say yes hang up or walk away. if he love you he won't let that happen. Responded: Ace of hearts