She shows no affection.... Post a Reply | Views: 1072 | Started By: Dominic | Replies: 6 I've been going out with this girl named Ashley for about two months and she's a very sweet girl. Here's my problem though...she's not really an affectionate type of person! We can be on the couch and I'll wrap my arm around her or I'll put my hand in her's and carress her skin or whatever and it seems like she's "not there with me". I keep asking her why she doesn't touch me back and she says that she doesn't know, she just doesn't cuddle or show affection. I guess I'm just so used to affection especially from my last g/f....maybe too much . Plus, I love showing affection because it's my way of showing how I care and I guess I figure since she doesn't show me any she doesn't really care. She says she does and yet she keeps her feelings bottled up anyways. She won't come clean with any of her feeling unless I confront her. What should I do?

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Pages:     1   2    Next     I think she is just being shy or very inexperience with men. If you would like to spend more time, I am sure she would show her natural affection at the right time. Responded: smoky   It's only been two mths. don't take things so personal. Maybe she has her own issues with affection and isn't ready to open up. Give her time and keep showing her affection. She may not show you affection because she has not received it herself. Responded: jstconverse   You didn't tell her age (or yours). Maybe she is inexperienced or shy or both, or afraid of being hurt... maybe she's not used to showing physical affection. Give her time. Responded: Glory   I believe that everyone has a different thinking and behavior towards relationship. Maybe she's one of those who's not expressive? Two months is still consider a very short time. Give her sometime to adapt to you while trying to accept her for who she is. Responded: Jojobabyluv   Just be there for her when she needs you. Don't force her to share her feelings with you or she'll never willingly tell you anything. By nature she's probably just not an affectionate person. Don't read too much into it. Responded: LilTickles   Pages:     1   2    Next