in love with one of my best friends Post a Reply | Views: 540 | Started By: Ace | Replies: 5 im 19,andI made the mistake of falling in love with my best friend,she know how I feel about her ,but she seeing some one right now,my heart tell me to go after her but my mind tell me that she take so leave it alone.what should I do?this is the first time I fell in love?and this is driving me crazy.

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WELL, this is a very common situation. if i were u, id rent a movie called Just Friends. watch it with her. After that,   tell her how u feel. thats ur last chance. u dont want to be late do u ? TELL HER HOW U FEEL MAN! Responded: THE ONE    DO    1.      Be yourself.   2.      Be a good listener.   3.      Try to have fun. 4.      Focus on getting to know your date 5.      be respectful to your date's wishes and independence. 6.      Observe the rules your parents and your date's parents set for dating.   DON'T  1.      Pretend to be someone you're not.   2.      Don't drink too much! 3.      Leave your date hanging.   4.      Make a snap judgment about your feelings toward your date.  5.      Don't talk about yourself too much.  6.      Don't wear something you don't feel drop dead gorgeous in. 7.      Don’t insist on being the one to decide what to do. 8.      Don't be arrogant. 9.      Don't focus only on having a good-looking boyfriend. Responded: Guest   leave it alone, if she know how you feel and still left it alone, then she just dosen't see you like that. sorry but that life, stay her friend  and maybe she'll see you differently later on, but don't get your hopes up Responded: guest0012   Do you know if she feels the same way? Say that she does but it wouldn't be fair to the guy that she's with, so she doesn't say anything to you. And if she doesn't feel the same than at least you know she will always be there as a friend. don't let a good friendship go if the feeling isn't mutual. Even though it will be hard to look at her as just a friend and wanting something more out of it. Don't miss out on the oppurtunity to date other females, maybe if you do she will want something that she can't have b/c you'd be dating someone. Now I'm not saying that you should make her jealous but sometimes you have to make people realize that the thing they really want is right under their nose. Responded: sewuinq   This is a tough situation, in fact I'm also in this situation. I think you should tell her how you feel. You never know, she might feel the same way and maybe she's too afraid to tell you too. Don't let her slip away, she's your best friend and she wants you to be honest with her. Tell her how you feel before you lose her to someone else. Responded: Kristen