"NEEDS"..he needs you?? what about a man that "WANTS" you..do you see them as the same thing?? I assure you they are not the same thing!
Seems he NEEDS someone to be there for him when he aint busy with the boys..i may be wrong dont know the whole situation..
Freedom is needed in relationships..but not at total disregard to the other pesrson..
Dont you deserve more than that??
Its your choice to let him treat you like this..
You are worth more than that..you sound like a loving and caring woman..you deserve the same in return..