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i know how u feel. I started to fall for my bf's cousin once!this is a really tricky situation. but since his bro is married why go in and bother it unless u get really steamy sings from the guy. im not saying going for him is right tho. cause if u go for him he might shoot u down cause u r supposed to be wih his bro. personally going for my bf cousin was the worst thing i could have done it tore my bf to peices but thankfully he forgave me because of the fact that i was trapped him that sitution(long story dont ask!!!) so how we are together still better than ever for 2 yrs! good luck to u and i hope u think u make the right decision
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| Responded: cancer |
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Well, it's probably OK to say we can't control our feelings, sometimes one comes in and we ask ourselves, "Where the heck did that come from. But we can control how we respond to them. We're more than just feeling creatures; we have minds, too. We can choose to nurture and cultivate them, or we can deny them and throw them away. I think in this case you need to do the latter, because anything else is going to end in disaster. First of all, this brother isn't even available, so you're fooling yourself if you think something can come of it. And even if he were, making a switch would come between them, and a family stands to be wrecked. Be strong here, and do what you know is right.
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| Responded: Duane |
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Do NOT try to go after his married brother. First of all, it's his BROTHER, and not only will you forever alienate your boyfriend, the brother probably won't want to have anything to do with you. Also, he's married, so going after him would make you both a homewrecker and a....well, it would be a very slutty thing to do. None of them would have anything to do with you.What the heck spurred this affection for your boyfriend's brother?And how old are you and your boyfriend? For curiosity's sake.
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| Responded: anotherwiseone |
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