How Often is to often. Opinion is needed! Post a Reply | Views: 234 | Started By: Cesar | Replies: 3 Hello everybody!This is my first time ever writing in this forum so please be nice to me. Have you ever listen to the old song by Johnny Burnett: You´re sixteen your beautiful and you´re mine?I´m 21 years my girlfriend is 16 we don´t see any problem with this do you think it is? well that´s not the question.The real thing is...how often do you think it is to often when you´re dating?We have been together for 8 months today and well...I love my girlfriend with all my heart...I just can´t get enough of her...but do you know when it could happen that she gets you know tired of me??? Because I´m 21, here in sweden we can u know party hard after 18 (everyone does it before anyway) But the thing is this that I don´t like to drink or go out dancing on clubs anymore...I like to be with my love...But she´s just 16...and I know that all of her friends use to drink in parties and stuff you know...and I don´t want my girl to do that...we´ve talked about it before and she says that she doesn´t want to party and drink...that she always want to be with me...(we´ve talked about moving in together when she´s 1 but guys...please...Am I holding her against her will??? Do you think that she´s to young to understand that it feels wrong knowing that she´s out there partying hard wothout her boyfriend....is it a trust question???We´ve kinda decide that we would spend the weekends together...but sometimes I can almost feel that she has been asked to go out and party...(not birthdays parties)...Am I asking to much?????Please help me...

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I dont see a problem with the age gap. 5 yrs is nothing these days, and it doesn't seem like either of you have a problem with it either which is a good thing. If either of you have a problem with it then you wouldn't be together after 8 (wonderful) months. Congrats for that too btw If 2 people are in love with each other I dont think there should ever come a time when 1 is fed up with the other. Love is a funny thing and you know you're experiencing it when you just can't seem to get enough of your other half. I think that is a good sign and if she is feeling the same way you have a really good relationship. There is nothing wrong with you wanting to spend your available time with your girlfreind and as long as she feels that you're not suffocating her then I think you're doing the right thing. If however she wants to spend a day or 2 apart to do her own thing I think it would be a good idea for her to do so. I think after 8 months you know a relationship is about compromise!!Saying that I dont think you are holding her against her will at all, you are not forcing her to be in a relationship with you just as you are not forcing her to spend her weekends with you but it seems like she is enjoying your company and is happy to spend time with you. I think if you are both happy with the decisions you are making within your relationship then you are doing fine. I hope that helps a little Responded: Axe   Thanks for the answers! I will talk about it with my girlfriend.Once again thank u very much!*Hugs* Responded: Cesar   5 years is only a small age gap, and I don't feel that you are holding her back...that is unless she wants to go out clubbing etc.If she does decide she wants to go out sometimes then there is always a compromise, don't hold her back if she expresses an interest in going out or when she gets older she may feel as though she has missed out on something. You had your chance to party hard, she deserves the same chances.You's can go out together sometimes and then have the odd 'boys' or 'girls' nights out apart too. Responded: Bindii