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Hi Maria! I know that I'm not male, I have a little insight to this.I went through the same thing with a guy I used to like. He told me that we were great friends... but that was it. I thought after since I had told him how I felt, that he may be weird with me, but he was the total opposite. He was flirty, and great to hang out with.Obviously you 2 have an amazing friendship there, but guys like it when girls like them. They feel like there is a little bit of a power thing going on, almost like they control the situation. Guys also need to learn that a girl can like them "more than a friend", and not fall at his feet everytime he calls upon them. As to whether or not he is starting to like you... I really can't say. It all depends on the person that he is.I say that you should continue the friendship, and see where it takes you. It may not go anywhere, but as long as you are having fun with him, then that's all that matters. Just make sure that you aren't so dedicated to him that you are missing out on other possibilites. I hope this helped! Good Luck!
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| Responded: Dara_J |
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| I think it means he is intimidated by your strength. Many men have a problem handling women with stronger personalities than theirs.All this fits within a pattern. I can't say if this is your boy for sure, but it would certainly fit.Often, shy men will attempt to be friends with women that they are attracted to, but feel they cannot date. Because they are too different, or some other supposed reason that lets them off the hook. Any reason to avoid taking that risk.They'll do many things that a bf would do, but don't have the guts to announce their intentions or act on them. The longer the "just friends" game goes on, the harder it gets to be truthful about their feelings. They will always conjure up a reason in their minds not to come clean.So if you want to find out if more is there, I think you are going to have to take the lead.
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| Responded: steelblue |
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hi dear steelblueit seems as if u met the guy for u gave me an accurate description of him!!! i already told him my feelings ... and what's more a coupla days ago i was in hospital for some small intervention i did and he even came to see me and stayed by my side for a long time; all the time looking me in the eyes...i m CONFUSED BIG TIME!!! helptanx for yr feedbackmaria
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| Responded: maria |
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