loneliness is my only guest.... Post a Reply | Views: 445 | Started By: hoyden | Replies: 2 I am not sure about how other singles feel out there during the holidays, but I feel so lonely. Theres no one to meet and nothing to do in the deprive city of Green Bay! I've curled myself up with all these sappy love movies that takes up 3 videos. I am starting to also feel so desperate. I won't ever settle for less, but why I am I being so vulnerable about all of this? Any one have any advice?

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I know how you feel,I suffer from depression (not a several one though) but I'm very easy to get all depressed and down sometimes.I too feel lonely sometimes,mainly cause my bf's not here.Instead of Christmas,the holiday that makes me feel 'lonely' is Valentine's Day I used to love it and now I feel like I hate it,I feel so damn lonely,at least I felt like that this year that daniel was away.I think my city is kinda boring too so you're not alone,like theres nothing excited to do and all that stuff,but I've realized that my brothers would go out every weekend and have a great time in this small town,then why wouldnt I? I know that its all in my head and mind,that I think its boring just cause I almost never go out! when my friends are up to something I prefer to stay at home,I barely go out on weekends and got to the point where I think theres no reason to do it cause its gonna ne boring but if I only put more effort on doing it then maybe I would have fun.Even if your friends have partners,set a day for you to go out all together and try! see how it goes.You can plan on going on some kind of trip too,thats what I love and it helps you clear your mind.Dont stay all day at home cause it'd only be worse,go somewhere even if its to the grocery store or to have an ice cream with your mom,sister,any relative.Just try to see things in a positive way and dont stuck in your loneliness feeling cause thats not healthy.Good Luck Responded: dianaSweety   i totally know how you feel...i always tend to feel more lonely during the holidays..i just went yesterday to a "single's Party"...but just my luck...it was more of an older crowd than i.my sis and i were the youngest ones there...(we're around the 20 range)anyhoo..right now, i think i'm just going to let it be...that party must have been a sign for something...not too look too hard... Responded: sweet_mary