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I know how you feel,I suffer from depression (not a several one though) but I'm very easy to get all depressed and down sometimes.I too feel lonely sometimes,mainly cause my bf's not here.Instead of Christmas,the holiday that makes me feel 'lonely' is Valentine's Day I used to love it and now I feel like I hate it,I feel so damn lonely,at least I felt like that this year that daniel was away.I think my city is kinda boring too so you're not alone,like theres nothing excited to do and all that stuff,but I've realized that my brothers would go out every weekend and have a great time in this small town,then why wouldnt I? I know that its all in my head and mind,that I think its boring just cause I almost never go out! when my friends are up to something I prefer to stay at home,I barely go out on weekends and got to the point where I think theres no reason to do it cause its gonna ne boring but if I only put more effort on doing it then maybe I would have fun.Even if your friends have partners,set a day for you to go out all together and try! see how it goes.You can plan on going on some kind of trip too,thats what I love and it helps you clear your mind.Dont stay all day at home cause it'd only be worse,go somewhere even if its to the grocery store or to have an ice cream with your mom,sister,any relative.Just try to see things in a positive way and dont stuck in your loneliness feeling cause thats not healthy.Good Luck
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| Responded: diana_sweety |
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i totally know how you feel...i always tend to feel more lonely during the holidays..i just went yesterday to a "single's Party"...but just my luck...it was more of an older crowd than i.my sis and i were the youngest ones there...(we're around the 20 range)anyhoo..right now, i think i'm just going to let it be...that party must have been a sign for something...not too look too hard...
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| Responded: sweet_mary-L |
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Hey Hoyden....I hate December its the worst time of the year..I feel aggressive anxious and of course really lonely like no ones feelings are really true towards me. After a long days work I come home smoke a joint and try watching the same movie for the 3rd night in a row. I go out to my friends bar everyones there and it doesn't make me feel any better. As much as I feel like being by myself everyones gonna be dissapointed if I don't show up. I usually become an alcoholis for the month of December I can'T wait until its all over...All I want right now is someone to hold me in the arms and really mean it...not necessarily a boyfriend but a good friend cause their hard to find and all of my real friends live far away...Think theres a mutual feeling out there of someone who understands you and that were not the only ones....I've been trying to figure out this feeling I've had inside for 2 weeks no thanks for enlightening me on the whole post holidays lonliness depression thing...but you never actually live this until you'Ve really loved someone and end up single
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| Responded: Melina |
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