Worried about GIRLFRIEND Post a Reply | Views: 326 | Started By: marco | Replies: 5 it's one of those.. "ask a stranger about your personal issues" questions. i really don't wanna ask friends because it might be embarrassing. i've been with this girl for almost half a year. we recently moved in together.. and i love her. i know she loves me too.. we have all the ingredients for the perfect "relationship recipe"   sex is real good.. bottom line if you saw us youd be like.. "yo thats a happy couple" the other day i think i made a mistake by letting her see some of my porno shits i have on my computer.. then i asked her if she wants to watch one while we're...... you know.. sexin it up. so she agrees. so i put on a long movie with different types of shit on it. the first part was a girl and a guy.. the 2nd part was 2 guys and a girl.. gangbang type shit. she didn't show interest in the first part.. she hinted that she wanted to watch the orgy shit. i didn't mind.. i enjoyed it at the moment. it was sexy. but now i'm kind of trippin about it. i get the feeling she likes that kind of stuff. more than 1 guy. all humor aside here, what is your serious take on this? am i over analyzing the situation? am i wrong for feeling weird about this? should i be worried? keep in mind i feel like i finally found a girl i can settle down with.. if it was just a regular bitch i'd just shut up about it and really enjoy the ride. i'm sure i'm not alone on this one.. if you asked me if i wanted my regular girl.. a girl i can consider myself in love with.. plans to spend a lifetime with.. if i wanted her to have an overwhelming sexual appetite and just be freaky as ####? i'd say no. it might be insecurity, or my ego screaming at me.. but i don't think i could feel comfortable with her fantasizing about any other dicks besides mine. come on, feel my tears over here. whores come a dime a dozen.. literally. i'm just worried i may be getting attached to the wrong girly. i brought it up and she started flippin on me.. telling me, "you're talking to me about this shit? look at your past.. bla bla" i wasn;t shocked tho. i know how it goes.. attack is the best defense..

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Dude, you are trippin. You're thinking too much and judging her too early based on 1 porno movie. My advice is don't let her see any more of those as you might be inciting her to explore her dark side if you know what I mean. We all have a dark side, some doors are just closed. Keep hers closed. And also, it goes both ways. If she can't fantasize about anybody, you can't either. You have no right to impose this on her. Responded: ctan   coming from a girls perspective... you need to quite trippin. really, just because she was interested in watching it, does not mean that she is interested in doing it. sometimes it is exciting to see what others do, which in the majority of the time, one couldnt do themselves. p.s. hold on to her if you love her, and you think she is a real woman...those are like you said "hard to come by" Responded: Guest   nope some girls are just turned on by it and don't carry it over into their real lives Responded: chloe   I dont think its anything to be worried about.  Look at it this way you have it all wrapped up into one assuming she's has all thats important to you in her character. this could be just a additive everything you want in a woman plus she got the sexual drive yo whats really good. you shouldnt be second guessing and feeling insecure over a movie plus she can use all those view on you. Responded: one   arent u guys funny!! u guys can get turned on by 2 women together..and we women know about it..no dramas..top of the mans fantasy list..but when a woman just watches a porno..that u in fact picked out(id even be concerned as a woman..u having porn with 2 guys at it)..yet now ur freakin?? i always thought guys wanted a woman in the street..tiger in the bed..which way to u want it??? seriously though ur analysing way too much..she was probably on the defensive coz ur were on the offensive?? chill and if it bugs ya that much..leave the porno out of the equation.. Responded: Guest