He left me, because of his Obsession!!! Post a Reply | Views: 434 | Started By: gurlnextdoor | Replies: 2 My ex- BF and I were together for over a month. He's one of those guys that believes in only saying "I love you", if and only if you really mean it. Well, he lied to me, but he admits it. He said that, "I love him more than he is capable of loving anyone, even himself." He said that his ex "broke" him and he can't love like he wants to. He also said that more than anything else in the world he wishes he could love me as much as I love him, but he can't. He told me that I am exactly the kind of person he wants to marry. But, somehow I don't believe any of this. It sounds like a fancy way of saying the worst and oldest break-up lines, "It's not you, it's me." Who knows, in this case he could be telling the truth. But anyways... Now we are so close as friends, we are almost like brother and sister. Things, though, are the same way they were BEFORE we went out. So, maybe I was just a rebound. But, he's still "in love" with her. He is, however, determined to get over her and he often asks for my advice and help. It's like we never went out. Is this a good thing? And do you have any advice for me and/ or him? I would appreciate the help. Thanx...

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I think he realise that he is not ready to settle with you and not got over his ex just yet.You can either stay and wait while your being a friend and maybe not happening at all.Or just stay a friend and get on with your life. Responded: peachy123uk   This guy sounds like he was trying to make it sound more dramatic than it really was (maybe so that you would feel sorry for him and sympathize with him?) I also think that 1 month is kind of soon to exchange the "I love you's". You obviously know him better than any of us...maybe he wasn't expecting to hear something like that and it scared him? As far as the ex...if he is admitting that he is still in love with her, you should definitely move on. You will only end up hurting yourself in the end. If he is a good friend, you can remain friends...but at the same time, it is rude of him to expect you to be "ok" with him talking about his ex. He shouldn't ask for advice from you either, he should respect that you have might still have feelings given your past relationship with him. Responded: brwneyedgrrl