OK First off who ever reads this and gives me there opinion would be really appreciated.
I love my girl friend we had some great time together but she has become very uncaring and distant towards me. She says she has no clue how she feels about us anymore but she still loves me.
I have gotten on her nerves on too many times according to her due to her being a bit of a control freak and me being careless or flat out stupid at times when it comes to doing general things.
Our sex life has flat out disappeared not due to me she is rarely in the mood and I am sick of being the one always initiating. We went from twice a week to twice a month at the most been like that for 6 months.
So bottom-line is she does not know what she wants which is kinda weird to me since we have been together so long.
I told her that I believe in us and I love her she had no reply to me and to make things worse she said to me that if I decide to move to for a new job that it would be cool for me to be on my own. I asked if it were vice versa what would she do and she said she would like to start her life by herself. In other words living or moving with her she wouldn’t want.
I hate the idea of ending this especially after all the love we have had but it seems like it’s very one sided now and she does not want me anymore.
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